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No-Romance Marriage Mod

by sappysims Posted 26th Sep 2021 at 3:22 AM - Updated 3rd Oct 2021 at 1:03 AM by sappysims
15 Comments / replies (Who?) - 6 Feedback Posts, 8 Thanks Posts
This mod adds an option for marriage with no romance, called a Marriage of Convenience. This could be useful if you want your sims to get married for practical reasons and not sustain a romantic relationship.

NOTE: THIS IS A TEMPORARY MOD. Creator MizoreYukii ( is working on an in-depth Arranged Marriage mod that will make this mod completely irrelevant, to be released later this year. When her mod comes out this mod will be deleted and no longer supported as hers' will have better features and support.

The Marriage of Convenience option shows up in the Romance category as a social interaction. It is a test based on friendship rather than romance score and should always be visible. If the target sim accepts, they will become engaged with no romance bar or enamored sentiments.

At that point, you can get married at the arch with the "perform marriage ceremony" interaction.

NOTE: If you elope, or use the normal marriage ceremony interactions, there will be a small increase in romantic relationship. If you want to avoid activating the pink bar, use the "perform marriage ceremony" interaction.

LIMITATIONS: The animations for the marriage ceremony are still the same - your sims will still look at each other lovingly and kiss at the end.

THIS MOD REQUIRES THE XML INJECTOR. You only need one iteration of the XML Injector so if you've downloaded it before, no need to download again.
Get it here:
Type: Social

You must have the expansion or stuff packs listed below installed to use this custom content. Please see the post text for any exceptions.

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Basic Download and Install Instructions:
1. Download: Click the File tab to see the download link. Click the link to save the .rar or .zip file(s) to your computer.
Read the upload description for installation instructions. If nothing else is specified, do the following:
2. Extract: Use WinRAR (Windows) to extract the .package file(s) (if included, ts4script as well) from the .rar or .zip file(s).
3. Cut and paste the .package file(s) (if included, ts4script as well) into your Mods folder
  • Windows XP: Documents and Settings\(Current User Account)\My Documents\Electronic Arts\The Sims 4\Mods\
  • Windows Vista/7/8/8.1: Users\(Current User Account)\Documents\Electronic Arts\The Sims 4\Mods\

Need more information?
  • Anyone can use both .rar and .zip files easily! On Windows, use WinRAR.
  • If you don't have a Mods folder, just make one.
  • Mod still not working? Make sure you have script mods enabled
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Test Subject
#2 Old 26th Sep 2021 at 1:38 PM
Wow this is cool, gonna try it :D
Field Researcher
#3 Old 26th Sep 2021 at 10:58 PM
I've been asking modders about it since so long and nobody did it, finally! Thank You ♥♥
Test Subject
#4 Old 27th Sep 2021 at 6:13 PM
Perfect for those LPs where you want to scam another, like if you want to pretend to your friends and family you finally met someone, or if you want to play an inheritance blackwidow storyline, or an more serious immigration storyline and get in depth about a real world matter. Thank you, this is excellent.
Test Subject
27th Sep 2021 at 7:36 PM
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Lab Assistant
#5 Old 28th Sep 2021 at 10:18 PM
This is so awesome! I really love the realism and broader applications that this mod could have. Do you know if this would conflict with the autonomous marriage mod from polar bear sims for example? or any of lumpinou's mods?
Test Subject
#6 Old 29th Sep 2021 at 12:35 AM
Works perfectly. Thanks!
Test Subject
#7 Old 29th Sep 2021 at 2:55 PM
Can't wait to try this for my new sim!
Test Subject
#8 Old 29th Sep 2021 at 6:24 PM
This so useful!!! I was in dire need of this, thank you so much for your work!!
Test Subject
Original Poster
#9 Old 30th Sep 2021 at 1:28 PM
Great, I'm so glad you like it! I haven't tested it with Polar Bear's mod, but I have most of Lumpinou's mods and it seems to work fine with it. It really shouldn't conflict with anything because it doesn't modify any game files and creates a unique interaction that is essentially a non-romance clone of what's already in game. That being said, autonomy is set to false for these interactions so hopefully even with an autonomous proposal mod, you shouldn't have your characters accidentally ending up in loveless marriages!

Originally Posted by landerlady12
This is so awesome! I really love the realism and broader applications that this mod could have. Do you know if this would conflict with the autonomous marriage mod from polar bear sims for example? or any of lumpinou's mods?
Test Subject
#10 Old 1st Oct 2021 at 12:18 AM
Test Subject
#11 Old 2nd Oct 2021 at 2:09 AM
This is very useful for Royal family gameplay. Thank you soo much
Test Subject
#12 Old 4th Oct 2021 at 1:19 AM
Hi, in my game the option to marry does not appear correctly. the symbol of hearts appears but the phrase is not there. I don't have any other mod. my game is in Portuguese.
Test Subject
#13 Old 13th Nov 2021 at 4:22 PM

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#14 Old 25th Nov 2021 at 12:42 PM
I do not know why, but this mod does not appear in my game, do you know if there are other mods it does not work with?
Test Subject
#15 Old Yesterday at 9:01 PM
Big thanks to this mod, it improved a lot my medieval gameplays.

But smth happened on last update i think? Still works but i get a LE everytime i try to marry them with the wedding arch, using either option.