Drama?
 

My life is pretty drama free, but I know plenty of guys and girls who have a lot of drama in their lives. Talk about your boy or girl drama here.

Since I'm Bisexual, I love looking at the girls as well as the boys. But after the one night stand with a man, I was having diarrhea and I went to see the gynecologist. So she said that I may have herpes, and I was scared to death about having the STD. Several weeks later, I have a mail and it said no herpes, no AIDs, no nothing. So I like, "Next time, I have to know someone before having sex with them."

The other drama was then when I first mused about being bisexual and the girls were like, "There is no way you could like a guy and a girl. You have to be gay or straight." I can't believe how biphobic some kids are still today.

Oh my god..seriously..
That's so narrow minded of them to think that.

Well.. I dont necessarily think is a phobia.. just misinformed, or uneducated. Its hard enough to understand someone that goes for the same sex... throw in that you may like both... or neither... and it just baffles... lol

Peace

I believe that I'm drama free. I mean, the hubby and i hang out with a small group of people.

I have no life to have drama in... lol... *cries into pillow*

Well I had some drama today:

This guy I'm interested in his ex is starting crap. What happened was I was interested in this guy at first, so I kind of was talking all sweet to him, then I heard him talk on the phone and I saw this pic he sent me, so I figured he wasn't my type. I met this guy on myspace, so I go to myspace and see that he deleted me so I'm like why did you delete me? and he's like I didn't. So I sent him another request and it showed he deleted me again. So he says that was prolly his ex doing that cus he had his myspace password. So I figured this guy is full of drama and plus he's not my type so I told him I just wanted to be friends and basically stopped talking to him. Now I was also talking to this other guy who was totally hot. Today he tells me that his ex is the same guy who deleted me from that other guy's myspace. So I've been nothing but honest with the hot guy but I'm afraid that his ex might try to come between us, oh and also the guy I didn't like as much said he was single on his page and everything but apparently he was still seeing the ex guy. I really hate drama.

I have to agree with you. It gets pretty cold and lonely some night sleeping alone, but my fear of an STD makes it not worth having even safe casual sex anymore. I had a BF until a few weeks ago then found out the SOB was married. Hopefully I'll meet a nice guy one of these days.

Incidentally I just joined this group a few days ago so hi to everyone.

Lisa.

i totally agree. :/
in this situation, it's hard to understand how someone else thinks.
you know what you want, but others don't.

life is confusing.

Some poeple have that idea.. weirdness.

Well, besides some of my ex-girlfriend's being completely psycho, not much drama to report in my department.

I went to a private Christian school all of my life and my parents are never going to change that. Homosexuality of any kind is badly frowned upon, so I have always kept this a secret. Nobody knows. Well, except you guys rofl.

that's why i never would've guessed it xP

Haha. The most unexpected people end up having the biggest secrets. (Somebody from my school said that when I said I SUPPORTED gay rights)

well... this sounds familiar... to an extent.
I've hardly told anyone IRL... except a couple of people.
But I'm way too trusting, so I have to keep my chatterbox shut. :/

I've told everyone. Except for my parents, of course. My dad's all...anti-gays and stuff.

^ Most of my family is opposed to the "choice" (cough cough), as well.

Me & my close friend are kind of in the same situation, so I can be myself with him.
Otherwise, it's a secret. (so shhh!)

Hahaha...oh...'choice.'

I had a friend like that once. But he started up some gay guy drama when he got a boyfriend, so lss, we're not friends anymore.

My parents are actually okay with gays, because I have openly gay friends that they think are okay and our neighbors are gay with a toddler...I'm just not sure they'd accept me. Especially since I'm their only kid.

That's exactly how it is with me! My entire family is opposed to be being gay, and believes it's a choice. And my best friend in the whole world, is also gay, and his family (well for the most part) opposes it too. He's even met my family and everything, but they don't know he's gay. It's strange we're both gay, and both attractive, but we've been nothing but friends for all the 5 years we've known each other, never even so much as kissed. I think it's good to have friends like that, who even though there could be something there, there isn't because you are such good friends, you wouldn't want to ruin that.

Luckies. I have nobody I can be myself with. Damn Christian views. -grumbles- (I love being a Christian, just not the NO BEING GAY OR GOD WILL KILL YOU thing)

It's nice to know I'm not the only one in that situation.
But yeah, funny you mention the friend thing, cuz my friend just admitted to having feelings for me. Well, we both admitted that to each other.
But we decided to keep our relationship the way it is. Probably for the better.
He doesn't even live near me anymore, so it would just be for naught.
I have yet to befriend anyone who's gay here. It sucks. I have to be boring to everyone else. :/


I know right!
I'm Christian, but I don't really like how much of a bad rap homosexuality has received.
Everyone makes it a point to say that being gay is like being a murderer, you deserve to die, blah blah blah.

Gays can be just as loving and caring and philanthropic and holy as any straight person on Earth!
&& plus I only have straight friends here. few of which I've actually told. :D

So a couple days ago I was at a church function, and me and my friend were talking about oldie music... mainly rock.
Eventually we got to the subject of Queen. Of course all we could do was praise the band.
And the conversation ended with my friend saying "Uh.... too bad Freddy Mercury was gay...."

I had never felt more upset.

Why should someone's sexual preferences prevent that person from being a huge success? :/

Wow! What ignorance! I like to attribute much of Freddy Mercury's success to his sexual orientation

That's great to hear Fashionation.

Glad everything worked out!

Coming Out!
 

It was on Sept. 08, When I came out to my mom.

At first she was okay with me being gay, But after a month, She started to ask too many question's.

She said I was to young to know what I like, Now I got to church EVERY Friday. The only time's that I don't go to church is when I don't have a ride, But in the church I go too, There's A LOT of people around my age & Some are kinda Bi or Gay! So in a way I should be thanking my mother, Cause now I Can get laid 10time's more than I do in school! (*since there's no one gay/bi in my school*)

-Drama suck's dick! & Not in the good way, If you know what I mean!

Wow, um.... I'm not sure that is pg13...... lol

... Can over-PG-13 stuff be over PG-13 when posted by jailbait?

(If no, should I start writing pr0n? ... xD)

Wheee! :D

I don't think over pg-13 can be written about, regardless of your age. XD

Well, I'm consider my life pretty much drama-free, my family knows I'm gay, my friends knows I'm gay, I'm only not outed in my work cause that can bring some mess I don't want to deal with, out of that everything was cool until 2 weeks ago when I caught my boyfriend with his ex, like the drama-free guy I'm, i just leave the place, he then tried to contact me until I saw him in a friends party, he cheated on me cause he thought i didn't love him because I've never showed any jealously for him... Isn't that trusting him?, then he throw me the crap that we never made sex, so that gives him right to go and do it with his ex?, I've told him from the start that I've wasn't going to have sex with him anytime soon, cause i was searching for a true relationship, and he was ok, he loved me & could wait, three months later now he said it was too much, yeah, right, and he still ask if we still have a chance... *headdesk*

To think i was planning this mini-vacations to finally make it out.

Some drama I've had...... Oh yeah, when i was in the mall with my sister(who is bisexual) this guy purposely tripped me. SO my sister got in his face. It turns out, he is the guy that started A LOT of rumors about me. Trying to clear tham up almost got me into five different fights! And they thought because i was gay, ment that i wouldnt fight back! What idiots, orientation has nothing to do with figthing, or being a pacifist. I explained that to them, and they all through pads at me, and said go clean your V(lets leave at that, or, your "womanhood") So i stood there, staring at them, with the look of "You think I care you just through pads at me infront of half the school?" I did care, but i didnt show it, then it happend. A guy approached me said, "I call you out!" I was like, no you dont. Than, people ran, cause a teacher came over and said who made this mess, and i got in trouble for it! ARRGGGH! All the drama!

Owww that's mean Indy, I've never had a problem like that, since 7th grade my looks are enough to scare them: tall, build & not a very friendly/sane smile =)

I'm lesbian, but I haven't told anyone IRL because in my school people are such dumb-assess that they still use 'gay' as an insult, and I'm not ashamed of being lesbian or anything, just like, "I'm not ready to deal with other peoples' reactions yet, so I'm not going to!" But it's hard, because as far as I know, all my friends are straight and have guy crushes, and talk about boys a lot, and I don't think they'd judge me for it, but I'm not really ready to deal with other people's reactions. People where I am are so ignorant that they act like being gay/having a different sexual orientation other than being straight is like a curse. I don't feel like I have to cover it up or anything exactly, I just can't really show who I am/love because people are so judgmental. I'm proud to be who I am but at the same time I know I can't exactly march out onto the street announcing it! The only person IRL who knows is my sister, who's a college student and bi and understands how things are.

I know alot of dramatic people. Making my life kind of dramatic. Like one of my closest friends, who's kind of homophobic but's cool w/ me, always txts me sounding really p-worded off (don't know how the words work on here). Then when i call him or go to hang out with him he won't talk to me. I'm over emotional as it is and this always really upsets me. He tells me not to let his problems get in the way of my life, but I'm bad at letting things go. This is just speaking in general cuz it happens all the time.

My ex was mentally ill when she dumped me, screaming about all kinds of paranoid delusions about me. She then kept talking about how it hurts to think about how great things were and how she wants to get back together after she can manage her borderline personality disorder better, but she's nothing but hostile and keeps telling my friends that I'm spying on her and other weird crap. I can't blame her for being irrational while mentally ill anymore than I can blame somebody for neglecting their responsibilities when they have the flu, so it's difficult for me to move on. If I could blame her, I'd be able to say, "good riddance," and not give it a second thought.

Instead, I'm worried about her. I worry that her new psychiatrist is a quack, and her abusive parents are taking advantage of her vulnerability to manipulate her.

So, my life is pretty full of dramas (mostly caused by me), however, I've always managed to land on my feet. The one that was the most ominous, was not connected with the orientation.

I guess some of you must have heard of the Gossip Girl series. I decided to make my own blog about my class, acquaintances and more renowned teenagers from my school. It was going well until I published one post too much, the guy went nuts, printed all of the posts and went to the headmaster. I was stupid enough to reveal my identity on the blog in the firts place, so I couldn't deny being the blogger. After major blah blah the headmaster said that I either stop blogging or be expelled for insubordination...

i believe i'm pretty drama-free by my actions, reactions, the way i handle problems. but there's still this huge hidden drama going on - i tend to fall for girls who don't like me or choose others and start relationships having me close as a friend. yes, exactly this friend who has to be the shoulder to cry on when things are not going too good with their beloved. fingers crossed i've learned my lessons and handle this kind of attractions better in the future :D

I get myself into drama by flirting with pretty much everyone! My Maths teacher won't sit me with some girls anymore, and one girls even threatened to REPORT me if I say ANYTHING dirty to her again!
I am, at least at the moment, very much bisexual. :P
So much it almost gives me a headache!