There is a "no jealousy" patch and I have it for ever. I only need to know how the thing is called. Could someone please tell me?

Would you like to know why?
Normally I play with tonnes of CC. The other day I build a new community lot with the beautiful Big Palmhouse by Bunny Wuffles. It took me for ages, because of all the clicking back and forth in the different buy menus. I spend my whole playing time of two days on the lot, only to discover in the end, that only 4 other sims would come to the lot. On my other community lots there are normally at least twice as much. I got so frustrated that I decided to try and play only with the Maxis stuff for a while. I kicked out all my CC (except for some very needful hacked objects) and started a new neighborhood. I recreated my favourit sims, gave them houses, careers. All was fine, very fine indeed, until some romantic relationships starte to form. That was when I noticed that I had forgotten about the no jealousy patch. But I can't find it. I have no idea what the file name was or where it was from. It should be something you would put in downloads. So could some please please save my sims from being beaten for harmlessly complimenting their new acquaintance?

It's from C&C Enterprises. Their site is no more, but parts of the site are preserved on the Wayback Machine, and luckily, the no-jealousy mod is one of the things that was saved. You can find it at https://web.archive.org/web/2005030...ads_regular.htm. There are a lot of things on that page; scroll down about halfway to find the No More Jealousy Patch.

Thank you so much, Corylea!
I was almost there this morning, but somehow I could only find older snapshots where it still says that it does not work with Making Magic.

You're welcome; have fun!