Any tutorials for clothes meshing OR Hair using wings 3d?
Or can i use the WDS BRIanna tut and use wings instead of M.S. ?

You can use the basic meshtool tutorial with Wings 3D if you use Hellborn's vertex mapper.... as stated in the InfoCenter article about Meshtool.

I just updated the link in the InfoCenter - use the new MESHTOOL/OBJ tutorial, don't use Brianna's it's too hard to follow, too many changes to SimPE.
http://www.modthesims2.com/showthread.php?t=141997

Just skip over the milkshape editing and do the vertex mapper, edit, and do the vertex mapper thing, then meshtool.