Also maybe functional trashed/rusty/etc objects?

Cyclone Sue at TSR https://www.thesimsresource.com/art.../skipsetitems/1
For objects that are rusty/trashed.

You can browse here:

https://ninthcirclets3cc.tumblr.com/archive/tagged/sims 3 grunge
https://scifits3ccblog.tumblr.com/archive/tagged/sims 3 grunge
https://scifits3ccblog.tumblr.com/archive/tagged/sims 3 dystopian apocalypse

Having dedicated myself to the dirty, worn, torn, messy and ultimately grungy sim, I can say that I have literally hundreds of items of clothing, hair, objects etc. squirreled away over the many years I've been playing TS3.

Problem is I can't put 100's of links here for you when I'm not 110% sure of what you are looking for/like.

Can I suggest that instead of looking for ripped and torn items, that you look for dirty, ripped patterns instead? This way you can simply apply a pattern and make anything (even objects) that are recolourable, look the way you might want it. Instead of trying to find clothes that may not suit your taste, use what you like and make it look like rubbish

Here is a couple of links that might get you started

https://www.thesimsresource.com/dow...appy/id/951236/

https://www.thesimsresource.com/dow...nces/id/894095/

https://www.thesimsresource.com/art...bric/id/894097/

https://www.thesimsresource.com/the...les/id/1279816/

https://aroundthesims3.com/objects/...mslife_05.shtml

https://www.thesimsresource.com/dow...n03/id/1012842/