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I met a great guy online and we're supposed to be going out later tonite for coffee, he's so cute! and he's um a btm (can you say that here) so that works out for me. I can't wait he's really sexy! he's a year younger than me (27) we been texting a lot lately, and he seems to want the same things I do (ltr).

aw, that's so good for you! Well, i just stared dating this guy..... it's my first real relationship, so it's moving along slowly..... BUT, i'm still happy where we are now... and i dont think it's too dirty to say top and bottom. I'm a bottom, and he's a top... of course we havent had sex yet. We've only been dating like, a month, and we dont get to see each other every day.....

EDIT: I think my comment is PG-13 enoguth, right? I mean, i kenw about sex when i was 13, and it's not like i'm decribing it in graphic detail.... lol... sorry, i just realy the site posting rules..... so, i thought i would add this...

Yes, sex is a perfectly natural act - and therefore no one should shame you or look down on you for discussing it openly as long as you are not doing it in a pornographic or vulgar manner (which you certainly weren't)! Although I can't claim to know what is going through the minds of the site moderators of MTS all the time, I think your comment was perfectly PG-13.
My personal love/sex life is great! I've been with the same guy for six years now - and things are still as wonderful between us as they've ever been! We tend to mix things up in the bedroom... He's a little older than me (I'm 28 - he's 33), but I've always gone for older men! lol.
I think people tend to think relationships are all fun - but they definitely require A LOT of work to maintain! However, if both parties are willing to stick with it, and put in the effort - they can be amazing! IF they don't work out - don't worry! It's usually for the best, and can be a great learning experience! (I certainly had quite a few of those in my early 20s!) There are plenty of great guys and girls (whatever floats your boat!) out there, and sometimes it just takes awhile to find the right one! Best regards to all of you in your love endeavors!

@ Fashionation- wow. All I can say is it's great that you're being yourself. Your happiness is all that should matter to you (among other things, but still, it's pretty important).
That's about all I can say. Having little to no experience in that department, I can't comment further.
:/
unfortunately.

Thanks VoiceIHear.
And you dont ramble! You made me feel better!
And yeah, I am leaning more towards women

You are very welcome. I'm glad I helped.

And yeah, that's pretty common with people who are Bi. They normally lean towards one sex then the other (most commonly their sex, but not always) ... that's perfectly normal.

And, if you don't mind me by asking, but how old are you?

Sophmore

so...that's 15?

16 I'm an old sophmore.

oh ok . thanks

No problem

just trying to make a point, sorry that you were the example :p

Don't worry about, Prostetics =3

I just broke up with my boyfriend..... the um..... well, hmmmmmm how do I put this in PG13 terms.... the --- was great, but I just didnt fall in love with him..... I just never felt what you should feel for somone you're suposed to be dating. Like, I enjoyed the ---, but after that, I just wanted to leave..... and he smoked, which I HATE.... so.... i duno.... I felt bad for breaking up with him, becasue he said he loved me..... but I just didint want to lead him on.....

I think you did the right thing, great you-know-what doesn't make up for the lack of love in the relationship.

Thanks.... yeah, that's what I thought too.... I mean, if it was simply you-know-what on both sides, i guess that would have been fine... but it wasnt... he said he loved me, and while I waited for me to feel the same, and I tried to feel the same, I just couldent.... He was a nice guy... I just didnt and couldent "fall" for him. Maybe I'm broken..... lol.... I think I'm going to take a long you-know-what break.....

Well, just to cover all bases, it could've just been the you-know-what on his side too, and he may have just felt that he was expected to say that he loved you. I don't know him, or you, or anything and it's hard to say for sure. :]

I'm not an expert in human emotion, but society does place plenty of pressure on love, though, and everyone wants to feel it, sometimes so bad that they lie about it.

I'm just gonna butt in
Wicked poppies- You did the right thing by leaving him-(wow I wish that came out nicer )-I should know, I had the same problem (With out the you-know-what) and when he found out, he was crushed
-So I just wanted you to know we're here for you!
(I'm sorry that came out so lame... )

Aww, you wasnt lame..... thanks for the support guys... I mean, I'm ok, but you guys have helped me realize that I made the right decision..... I mean, I want love..... Not just sex (hell, we all know what we're trying to avoid saving. LOL) Ever since I realized I was gay, I've never been a big sex person..... It's just not a big deal to me.... What I realy want is a great relationship, and then after a while maybe sex.... And I just realized one day that I wasnt going to find it with him.....

I'm cold.


Anywho, Jon, guesssss what?


I'm bored. And cold. And I hurt. I fell in the shower like the dork I am.

*headdesk* I post my love life in other thread... well long-story short: I'm a romantic guy, had my first official boyfriend in feb, he cheated on me 2 weeks ago, 'cause i totally trust him and he thought i didn't care for him 'cause I've never showed any jealously, didn't have sex with him because I wanted to know our relationship were real first, he couldn't control his lower head and got involved with his ex, first It really hurt like hell, then I got better and gave thanks to God 'cause lately he was pressing nonstop to make it & I was just about to agree.

So now I'm single, still virgin & again still looking for love =).

I wish I was a virgin again. I'v already decided that I am not going to have sex this year. Is that pg 13? I hope so... anyways... I think sex is overrated. I think love is overrated too though. blah.... I do enjoy eating, and taking my happy pills though. ;-)

It's pg-13. Not like you went into detail or anything ;3

Hello, My name is Mikkie.. more commonly known as BarbieBunnie , .<3xoxo
But im primarily here to state the obvious about well... more or less the obvious.. to me anyway. Read this or dont bothers me none, im just really trying to vent and this seems like a GREAT outing to do it in. From the very first day i fell victim to the parasite that is love and sense before i knew what love was id been infatuated with story book, fairy tale, happily ever after, story book, hopeless romantic, love stories. From Jack and Rose to Cinderella and Charming... ive never seemed to be able to let go of the thought that love is truly the only REAL magic left on earth of which you dont need to go to some class to learn some con artist like manuver for. all you need are too willing participants a few shots from cupid and a dash of soap opera... because lets be real whats a love if not filled with a bit of drama to keep you in love? right? i mean come on it just makes your love story more interesting... and plus even if you try your hardest there really is no avoiding the obvious. all is fair in love and war? so this meaning you cant willingly fall in love with a person and not expect to have some kind of bad soap opera drama every once and a while, BUT its the test that you make through it that determines if your really in love right? well ive been in love ive been broken by it. and now im broken by the abyss that consumes you almost as depressingly fast as love... engulfed in a endless head first stumble into a little white rabbits hole that shouldve had a sign reading caution either way youll be hurt -- translation? you can be miserablly in love or miserablly lonely... but either way there is No getting over being miserable. sadly though we all yearn for it? but why? why does the heart want so terribly bad what will be eventually detrimental to ones existance? im not sure and have yet to find out but this is just part of my journey and i shall document every thing i learn along the way so dont worry hopefully more questions and theories will arrive from my scientific field research but for now youll just have to wait... just like me. i need to find my control group, independent variable, dependent variable, and more than all i need to stop losing control, and from something thats foreign to me but so dearly wanted -- love.
- BarbieBunnie.<3xoxo :lovestruc