Heyas,

I am a nearly 50 year old German with AuDHD (ASD-1 being the Autism component, to be exact).
I have been modding for a ton of games, including some normal (Civilization, Conan Exiles, and a couple others) and some x-rated titles, that I cannot mention here.
All of it done in either C++, Python, or assembly, injecting stuff at runtime level into games.
I am out of this for nearly a decade, though, so don't ask any specifics for current games and their iterations. I might be able to help on a more general spectrum, however.
I also did a lot of modeling and animating in Blender, but I do not want anything to do with that anymore.
Never have I been an active member of the Sims community, though, but I recently returned to Sims 3, which I only modded for, and built worlds for, for private needs.