I'm a beginner so my apology if this thread ain't fit this forum room... but I think it is... Well, My male sim and mary sue, have a love....after a dream date happened. I just wanted them to be friends not being enemies but every time I date someone and mary sue caught me... well... i don't want that to happen. Is there's a way to do it nicer than making someone mad? what will you do?

The easiest way is to try to avoid being caught when you are dating. (Or get a no jealousy hack if you want to go that route.) The only way I have found to fall out of love involved getting someone very angry after letting the relationship drop through time anyway. (Or accidentally getting one of the sims eaten by an unfenced cowplant, but you probably don't want to do THAT either.)

So, you're saying there no such thing as "being just bestfriends " after a dream date? So, you must get them together and make them mad w/ each other... and make them be just friends afterwards. OR there's a shortcut of being just bestfriends after dating and w/o hurting each other.

Sounds like you need the breakup hack. I started a thread just like this a while back. More info here.

Yup, that's what i Wanted to do, erasing love and just be friends. It is like you're saying: I like you but I have a boy friend lets just be friends" or " I have a great time being w/ you but I'm married, HEY wana BEER! " :goodbad :goodbad

I just remembered the Quick relations tool on the Insiminator DOES let you drop a relationship to Best friends from Love. But it also drops the relationship score a bit. I think you end up at 65/55 with Best friend status. But then you have the memory of having been in love, which will cause random wants to have romantic interactions with the person and can have your sim autonomously hugging and kissing the other sim if you don't watch out.

But is there a mod or something that cancels out love/crushes but retains friendships, sort of a 'I like you but only as a friend now' or something like that? I have romance sims that have a crush/love on half the people in the neighbourhood and after they are married, I don't want them to be cheating on their spouse.

I know there is Insiminator and SimPE but I don't want to be using those... :smash:

All I can think of is the love crystal from Simslice. But it was free.