I'm about to lose my mind with townies standing next to my sims while they are doing something like eating or talking to someone else waiting to "greet" them. It will show in my sim's queue following whatever action they are currently doing and sometimes clicking it out will make the other sim go away but other times they will persist and it will keep popping up in the queue. Meanwhile, they will be lurking next to my sim making it frustrating to take screenshots. I've searched for a mod to stop this but all I can find is a mod to stop my own sim from having to greet another sim first and another to stop the different greets like high-fives and kiss-kiss which I think is cute personally. Attached is a pic I took of my sim on a date. The two sims next to them stood around lurking the entire date!

That one will be a very welcomed mod!

I know this thread is old, but I'm looking for this exact thing! Every mod I've found that does something along those lines alters a bunch of other behaviour instead. I just want to be able to go on a date without constantly being interrupted by random sims (shoutout to that townie who stood right outside my sims' car the whole time while they were making out and woohooing - good thing one of them is a witch so he could hex her afterwards as revenge). If anyone could make a mod that only removes the "be greeted" spam and lets one just greet the sims you want, that would be so appreciated.

That's hilarious although I'm sure it was super annoying for you. I never did find a mod for this but hey if you do find something share back here please!