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#1 Old 30th Sep 2025 at 2:23 PM
Default How to remove relationship between two sims
Hi everyone!
I'm back with another question Sorry ehehe
I would like to know if there's a way to remove a sim from the relationship list (through a mod or SimPE).
My idea is this:
I want a baby sim not to know his own mother. Also, I want the mother not to know her own child. That's because I will transfer the baby to the orphanage and I don't want them to have contact (at least until the baby is old enough and wants to meet his biological parents)
I don't want to remove their blood relation (meaning I don't want to edit the family tree) cause I don't want weird situations in which half-brothers fall in love
Do you have any suggestion?
Thank you in advance!!
Mad Poster
#2 Old 30th Sep 2025 at 3:55 PM
Just use the Sim Blender to unset the have met flag.
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#3 Old 30th Sep 2025 at 4:12 PM
It would be a bit weird if the mother doesn't remember having a child and giving it up.
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#4 Old 30th Sep 2025 at 5:08 PM
Removing that flag won't affect any actual memories.
Lab Assistant
#5 Old 30th Sep 2025 at 6:00 PM
This should do it. https://modthesims.info/d/155086/re...2006-lt-lt.html

I often use it if im running a shop. You end up meeting so many NPC customers and they end up in your relationship panel and their telephone directory end up huge.
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#6 Old 30th Sep 2025 at 8:24 PM
Quote: Originally posted by Legate
This should do it. https://modthesims.info/d/155086/re...2006-lt-lt.html

I often use it if im running a shop. You end up meeting so many NPC customers and they end up in your relationship panel and their telephone directory end up huge.

Will it prevent my sims from calling each other on the phone?
I don't want the child to autonomously call his mother on the phone while I'm playing with her. Same goes for the mother: I don't want her to call her child while he's in the orphanage (unless they reconnect somehow, of course).
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#7 Old 30th Sep 2025 at 8:28 PM
Quote: Originally posted by kestrellyn
Just use the Sim Blender to unset the have met flag.

Will this stop them from autonomously calling each other on the phone?
Mad Poster
#8 Old 30th Sep 2025 at 8:45 PM
Yes, it should, unless they get randomly selected to invite them to Downtown.
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#9 Old 30th Sep 2025 at 10:02 PM
Quote: Originally posted by kestrellyn
Yes, it should, unless they get randomly selected to invite them to Downtown.

Great!! I don't have a Downtown in my custom neighborhood, so it should work! Thank you!!
Lab Assistant
#10 Old 1st Oct 2025 at 1:13 AM
Quote: Originally posted by TRamp94
Will it prevent my sims from calling each other on the phone?
I don't want the child to autonomously call his mother on the phone while I'm playing with her. Same goes for the mother: I don't want her to call her child while he's in the orphanage (unless they reconnect somehow, of course).

Yes. If you don't know someone then you can't call them. Think about the Sims telephone directory it only contains people they know.
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#11 Old 1st Oct 2025 at 3:01 PM
Quote: Originally posted by Legate
Yes. If you don't know someone then you can't call them. Think about the Sims telephone directory it only contains people they know.

Thank you!! I will also try the mod you recommended!
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